Loving - A view on marriage that had an impact on history, but lacks the passion to inspire - 3 stars

'Tell them, I love my wife.' 

Walking into the cinema...

It is hard to believe that this era existed, but maybe is it worth being reminded to ensure it does not happen again. 

Russelling Reviews: 3 stars

   The first year of any marriage can be a time of adjustment, but the challenges faced by Richard and Mildred Loving (Joel Edgerton and Ruth Negga) exceeded most other couple's experience. Falling in love and getting married in Virginia in the 1950’s was not easy for an interracial couple, since it was against the law for them to be married. The Lovings still choose to tie the knot, travelling to where it was legal in nearby Washington D.C. Despite it being legal there, soon after crossing the border into their home state, the couple is arrested and spend time in jail. This leads to their eventual banishment from Virginia and forces them to leave behind the simple country life for the big city life of the nation’s capital. They adjust to life in the big city, but constantly yearned for home in Virginia. During this changing time in America’s history, they eventually are able to gain the legal assistance they need that gives them hope of returning to their family and life. Through their willingness to stand up for thier love for one another they become the centre of the U.S. Supreme Court decision Loving v. Virginia, which invalidated state laws prohibiting interracial marriage.

        Sometimes love of a woman can make the simplest of men make the boldest decisions in their lives. This is what is  portrayed in the life of Richard Loving. He loved Mildred and she loved her husband. If director Jeff Nichols (Midnight Special) was able to convey anything, it was the long-term conviction that the Lovings had for one another. Joel Edgerton (Midnight Special) provides the strong, silent and brooding nature of the bricklayer from small town America. He shows that a man of few words can still communicate a multitude of things through his actions. Partnered with the quiet and courageous nature of Ruth Negga’s (Warcraft) interpretation of the sharecropper’s daughter, this had the potential to be an exceptional historical biopic. Nichols was able to show their affection, but managed to misplace the passion in their situation. As a director he is known for understatement instead of the sensational, which does not complement this story. In trying to diffuse the sensational nature of this case and focussing on the Lovings simple life amongst the drama, Nichols inexplicably eliminates the emotion that must have been part of their lives. The couples tender hearts and conviction to one another was conveyed on screen, but it was challenging to the find the heart of the film. 

      Another area that Loving suffers is from ‘civil-rights movement’  fatigue. Showcasing these atrocities and ensuring that mankind does not go back to them is important. There is place for educating and entertaining the populace about this history. Hollywood has been mining stories from this era for the past few decades and there will be more in the future, but there has to be a fresh way of telling them. The challenge is finding something new to say. The Loving’s 10 year saga is a fascinating analysis of America in the 50’s and 60’s, but all of it seems like a familiar journey for the audience. Between Jeff Nichols’ measured storytelling style and the scripts’ familiar content, Loving produces more yawns than the tears and cheers, which should be the response from those watching. 

The Lovings 

REEL DIALOGUE: What are some of the bigger questions to consider from this film? 

What does the Bible really say about marriage?  It would be negligent to not discuss this topic after seeing Loving. 

The offical court documents show that Caroline County Circuit Court Judge Leon M. Bazile misused the Bible to defend his horrible verdict against the Lovings. In the end, his view on life and marriage was shown to merely be his opinion disguised as God's position. 

Some may think that the Bible does not have the answers to this question of marriage. Thankfully the God does not leave this question unanswered. The Bible gives us direct answers to the question on the value of marriage. Throughout the Bible, the answers are provided, even Jesus gives specific answers to people when asked.

“Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 14:4-6

Marriage was God's idea and is a blessing to mankind. There is freedom within his paradigm, but God does have a paradigm. Anyone's opinion that differs from the Bible and/or Jesus' statement on marriage is merely their opinion and puts tham at odds from God's view on marriage. The Bible's answers are accessible to all for consideration, but the reader must choose what to believe. 

Passages on marriage: 
Genesis 2:20-24, Proverbs 19:14, Matthew 14:4-6, 1 Corinthians 7, Ephesians 5

Trailer for the film

Written by Russell Matthews based on a five star rating system @ Russelling Reviews #russellingrevs #loving #interracialmarriage